BIBLIO is the largest independent book marketplace in the world, with over 100 million books.

Skip to content

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives Paperback - 2004

by Jane Adams

Add to wish list

"Beyond offering sympathy, reassurance, and wisdom, the book doesn't lay out a plan for solving anyone's problems, but reading it may help disappointed parents shuck some of their guilt and shame . . . and let their grown children fend for themselves."--Amazon.com.

Reader reviews for When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

From the publisher

How do parents cope when their adult children struggle to launch, battle depression or addiction, or return home unable to face independence? With empathy and insight, When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us confronts the painful gap between parental hopes and the reality of "adultolescents" who are stuck, struggling, or spiraling.

In this groundbreaking book, a social psychologist who's been chronicling the lives of American families for over two decades confronts our deepest concerns, including our silence and self-imposed sense of isolation, when our grown kids have failed to thrive. She listens to a generation that "did everything right" and expected its children to grow into happy, healthy, successful adults. But they haven't, at least, not yet--and meanwhile, we're letting their problems threaten our health, marriages, security, freedom, careers or retirement, and other family relationships.

With warmth, empathy, and perspective, Dr. Adams offers a positive, life-affirming message to parents who are still trying to "fix" their adult children--Stop! She shows us how to separate from their problems without separating from them, and how to be a positive force in their lives while getting on with our own. As we navigate this critical passage in our second adulthood and their first, the bestselling author of I'm Still Your Mother reminds us that the pleasures and possibilities of postparenthood should not depend on how our kids turn out, but on how we do!

First line

HASH(0x11175570)

Details

  • Title When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives
  • Author Jane Adams
  • Binding Paperback
  • Edition Reprint
  • Pages 224
  • Volumes 1
  • Language ENG
  • Publisher Free Press, New York, New York
  • Publication date 2004-06-03
  • Features Bibliography, Index
  • ISBN 9780743232814 / 074323281X
  • Weight 0.45 lbs (0.20 kg)
  • Dimensions 8.5 x 5.42 x 0.55 in (21.59 x 13.77 x 1.40 cm)
  • Themes
    • Topical: Family
  • Category Family / Parenting / Childbirth
  • Dewey Decimal Code 306.874

More Copies for Sale

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Very good
  • Paperback
Condition
Very good
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
36
Seller
Item price
A$11.32
A$7.08 Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 6/3/2004 12:00:01 AM. paperback. Very Good. 0.7000 8.4000 5.5000.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$11.32
A$7.08 Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Very good
  • Paperback
Condition
Very good
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
2
Seller
Item price
A$14.24
A$7.08 Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 6/3/2004 12:00:01 AM. paperback. Very Good. 0.7000 8.4000 5.5000. Cover and edges may have some wear.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$14.24
A$7.08 Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Very good
  • Paperback
Condition
Very good
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
4
Seller
Item price
A$14.85
A$7.08 Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 6/3/2004 12:00:01 AM. paperback. Very Good. 0.7000 8.4000 5.5000.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$14.85
A$7.08 Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Paperback
Condition
New
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
4
Seller
Item price
A$15.05
A$7.08 Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 6/3/2004 12:00:01 AM. paperback. Like New. 0.7000 8.4000 5.5000.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$15.05
A$7.08 Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Paperback
Condition
New
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
1
Seller
Item price
A$15.05
A$7.08 Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 6/3/2004 12:00:01 AM. paperback. Like New. 0.7000 8.4000 5.5000.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$15.05
A$7.08 Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Very good
  • Paperback
Condition
Very good
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
7
Seller
Item price
A$15.05
A$7.08 Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 6/3/2004 12:00:01 AM. paperback. Very Good. 0.7000 8.4000 5.5000. Cover shows minimal external wear. In otherwise near pristine condition with minimal/no other wear, crisp & clean interiors showing unmarked text, and firm binding! A very good copy.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$15.05
A$7.08 Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Very good
Condition
Very good
Edition
Reprint
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
1
Seller
Item price
A$16.55
Free Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press. Reprint. Very Good. It's a well-cared-for item that has seen limited use. The item may show minor signs of wear. All the text is legible, with all pages included. It may have slight markings and/or highlighting.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$16.55
Free Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us

by Adams, Jane,

  • New
Condition
New
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281x
Quantity available
5
Seller
Item price
A$18.15
A$5.66 Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
new.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$18.15
A$5.66 Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Paperback
Condition
Used
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281X
Quantity available
1
Seller
Item price
A$19.64
Free Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 2004-06-03. paperback. Used: Good. 5.50x0.60x8.44. Buy with confidence. Excellent Customer Service & Return policy.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$19.64
Free Delivery to USA
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting...
Stock photo: cover may vary

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives

by Adams, Jane

  • Used
  • Good
  • Paperback
Condition
Good
Binding
Paperback
ISBN 10 / ISBN 13
9780743232814 / 074323281X
Quantity available
1
Seller
Item price
A$20.17
Free Delivery to USA

Show details

Description:
Free Press, 2004-06-03. paperback. Good. 21x14x2. Buy with confidence. Excellent Customer Service & Return policy.
Add to wish list
Item price
A$20.17
Free Delivery to USA